

Sanctuary of Yum: Four Birthdays, One Big Vibe
Four Birthdays. One Sanctuary. Zero Restraints.
Clear your calendar. This is not a backyard barbecue. It’s a collision of epic humans, sick beats, delicious food, and a little chemical curiosity.
We’re coming together to celebrate Amber Hartnell, Raquel Abrams, Amie Barsky, and Paul Austin, four humans who refuse to do birthdays like muggles.
The Sanctuary of Yum in Bonsall is our base camp for the afternoon. It’s a wellness paradise wrapped in wild nature, with hidden corners for whispers, wide-open spaces for movement, and a bathhouse set-up that demands you bring a swimsuit.
From 2 PM to 8 PM, nothing is scripted. A DJ will keep the beat alive while the grill throws down the main feast. Bring something to share if you want to add to the spread.
Expect the unexpected...
Engage in slow, deep conversations one minute and sweaty, unapologetic dancing the next.
This is invite-only because the magic only works with the right people. If you have someone in mind who should be here, check with one of your hosts before you send them the link.
Come as you are or as you’ve always wanted to be.
Bring curiosity, an appetite for connection, and a suit for the water.
(Paul will bring the acid)
We’re not just celebrating another trip around the sun.
We’re testing the limits of what happens when the right mix of people drop the small talk and let the day take over.
P.S. We'd LOVE if you could bring a dish to share. We'll provide the main dishes but would love to have PLENTY to go around for our afternoon in paradise.