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Three (or more) is company: Navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties with Stella Harris

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About Event

Join us as we welcome Stella Harris (she/her) for Three (or more) is company: Navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties on Wednesday, March 29th at 7:30pm EST over Zoom!

This workshop will be recorded and will be made available to everyone who registers for 7 days following the workshop.

About the workshop: Studies show that multi-partner sex is the number one fantasy among American adults. But how do you make it happen? People have a hard enough time negotiating sex or kink with just one person. Adding more people to the mix can complicate things exponentially. But that doesn't mean it has to be a hassle, a headache, or a recipe for disaster. If your communication and negotiation skills are on point you can have safe and fun play with as many people as your heart desires.

This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you’re confidant about your boundaries, ways to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and ways to facilitate happy & safe group experiences. We’ll cover everything from safety with multiple players, to threesome positions, to party etiquette, to asking for what you want.

By the end of this workshop you will:

  • Determine whether threesomes/group sex are right for you or your relationship

  • Feel confidant expressing fantasies and boundaries

  • Have a solid understanding of how to meet people or get started

This workshop is expected to run between 60 and 90 minutes.

Accessibility Info:

Closed captions will be provided through Zoom.

About Stella Harris:

Stella Harris believes communication is key to satisfaction in relationships. Professionally trained and certified as an intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, Stella brings empathy, expertise, and a fresh perspective to help clients find their sticking points and break through the roadblocks to their goals.

A regular speaker at colleges, universities, conferences, and venues across the US and Canada, Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, appearing as an expert witness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits.

Stella’s sense of humor and ability to make difficult conversations approachable make her a frequent guest on podcasts like Sex Out Loud, Sex With Strangers, Shameless Sex, and The Pleasure Mechanics. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.

To Register:

Tickets are available on a sliding scale ($3-$50) to ensure folx of varying economic backgrounds are able to access the sex education they deserve. We ask those who have the financial means to help "spread the wealth" by contributing to the community pool so that we can offer a limited number of sponsored free tickets to those who need it.

​​We kindly ask that those who have the financial means to purchase a ticket do so, and save our sponsored free tickets to those who do not. ​​

​​To access this workshop for free, please enter the code SHIP-FREE when registering.

​​After you register, we will send you an email with the event login information (be sure to check your spam folder!). If you haven't already, make sure you download Zoom before we all log on:

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Refund + Cancellation Policy:

  • Unless otherwise specified, all workshops are recorded and access to the recording is made available for 7 days following the workshop to everyone who registered prior to the workshop start time. We do not offer refunds to those who were unable to attend or watch the recording within the allotted time.

  • In the event SHIP and/or the Educator(s) need to change the date of the workshop, we will automatically transfer your registration once the workshop has been rescheduled. If the workshop is cancelled outright, we will contact you with the option to have your registration fee refunded, transferred to another workshop, or treated as a tax-deductible donation.

​​If you have any questions, or experience any issues registering, please reach out to