​Learn How to Better Understand Women

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​For Single or Coupled Men

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​Women can be such a mystery for men and vice-versa. In this Playshop for men, we will explore what naturally makes women different from us.

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​"Men and women are on the exact same page...

​Just in different books!"

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​The Short Version:

​If you're a man... women need, desire and crave certain masculine traits, behaviours and energies from you. The interesting thing is that they may not know what that really is or how to articulate it!

​In fact, even if they do, they likely do no not want to have to teach you how to 'be a man', if they even can!

​This Playshop is the solution to that problem!

​Come and learn how to understand how women work, in relation to how you can show up as a man of integrity.

​The results can be incredibly empowering and satisfying!

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​The Longer Version:

​The modern world has become a confusing place. Many men feel so much pressure to be the bold, confident, charming, sexy partner, or prospective partner that women seek. Ladies also truly desire a man that they can trust. Allowing them to feel safe enough to surrender to their true feminine essence, which creates even more attraction.

​Polarity is the way of nature. A natural harmony of opposing forces that creates attraction. Like the magnetism of north and south, each of us has our own unique energetic frequency, which in turn interacts with that of another human being.

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​From these natural opposing forces, we empower each other in profound ways!

​The more magnetically masculine you are as a man, the more feminine a woman gets to feel. It's not just about acting a certain way or saying something you think she wants to hear. It's about embodying your natural masculine essence with integrity, in a mature and safe manner. This masculine energy can be felt by those around you, without you actually doing anything.

​The few men who have achieved this level of embodiment are in a different league and often have little to no competition when it comes to attracting a woman they may desire. They are playing by different rules than that of the average man.

​Femininity is more about inner feelings and 'being', while masculinity tends to be more about outward action, mental logic and 'doing'. Men need to be in touch with both of these, in order to access their full potential. How can you attract or thrive with the feminine, if you don't know how to speak feminine? This may all sound a bit confusing...

​Well, the good news is that I will be providing some helpful guidance for you to explore as you discover or further enhance your own true masculine essence.

​All Playshops are conducted in English.

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​Q&A

​You will be invited to ask questions related to your specific challenges to do with women when it comes to attraction, relationships, intimacy and dating.

​You will be supported in learning how to...

• ​Better understand the subtle signals women use to communicate or show attraction

• ​Get women to open up and relax around you, which allows them to be more in their magical feminine

• ​Be more in your magnetic masculine which is what women are generally craving for, so they can be more in their natural feminine essence

• ​Plus more useful tools and tips

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​This event will be in English only and the Zoom link will be sent out beforehand. There are a limited amount of spaces per Zoom session, so you're encouraged to book early to avoid disappointment.

​You can book your ticket for this Zoom Playshop on this page.

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​Private Sessions

​I also offer private 1:1 coaching sessions for individuals, for couples and for custom groups, both in person and online, so feel free to email me about those options too.

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​If you have any questions, you are welcome to email me.

​I look forward to connecting with you soon.

​Ryan xo

​The Soul Mechanic✨

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​Ryan Koriya, aka The Soul Mechanic, is a charismatic dating, relationship and intimacy coach who has been organically helping bridge the gap between the sexes for over two decades. He has been empowering women and men using an accessible, conscious and personalised approach. Often drawing from his keen intuition, accumulated knowledge, years of experience and his education in fields such as relationship psychology, human behaviour, integrative hypnosis, public speaking, theatre, all the way to branding, marketing, self development, spirituality and energy modalities.

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​Testimonials

​A Couple's Strong Positive Modelling of Masculinity

​"My partner and I had been struggling to work through some recurring issues by ourselves for quite some time and knew we needed some pragmatic, solution-based support to move forward. I've always been quite hesitant about working with male coaches or therapists, never really quite feeling comfortable with them, but Ryan has so much warmth about him, I was surprised to notice how safe I felt during our initial conversation before the session. Wonderfully, my partner felt the same.

​We both noted how he has a really safe, nurturing and loving masculine energy which neither of us had really encountered in many men in our lives. For my partner, this created a feeling of a strong positive modelling of masculinity that he'd not had in his own life and for me, Ryan's ability to hold space with a combination of strength, gentleness and boundaries dissolved my usual mistrust of men which has also been core to some of our issues. 

​We both quite enjoyed filling out the short form he sent us beforehand, and though it felt like he really took the time to get to know us before diving in to exploring solutions, the first session alone gave us alot of insights and we left feeling resourced around next steps. He validated our respective experiences and even whilst recognising where we might be going wrong, acknowledged each of our reasons for doing so in a way that felt loving and relatable, never judgemental or accusatory. 

​Ultimately, working with Ryan felt like hanging out over a glass of wine with a really wise, lovely friend who had both of our best interests at heart and wants to see us succeed.

​I can't recommend him highly enough!"

​Stephanie, Life Coach, 2023

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​Saved From Falling into Other Toxic Situations

​"Through Ryan’s mentoring I have learned how to not take things personally, which has been a big problem for me in the past. I have given myself a hard time when a guy has shut down a relationship, backed off or walked away because of their own issues but they have also projected their issues onto me! Learning about projection was vital because people can project without even realising what they’re doing, and this is toxic!

​​With Ryan’s wise guidance I was able to see the light and recognise that I was doing all I could in my relationship and that my partner (at the time) would not meet me in the middle!

​​I felt supported and encouraged by Ryan’s mentoring, he views a situation from the outside, he looks closely, investigates and then explains what is happening. Being able to turn to Ryan has saved me from falling into other toxic situations.

​​Ryan understands that every individual is different, everyone has different perceptions of what love is and how they approach finding meaningful relationships. How important communication is and discussing exactly what a person wants first, before anything can happen! Through Ryan’s guidance, I have been able to understand that what people want must be respected and that it is just different from what we want sometimes, and there is no point in pushing someone to be something, or to want the same as you, when clearly, they do not!

​​Be that confident person, know your worth and know what you want and move forward, keep your options open and you’ll know when you’ve found that true love, if that’s what you desire!"

​Carly, Freelancer, 2020

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​I Was A Virgin In My Late 20s and Stuck!

​"Literally the world around me was full of potential but I was like a camera with a lens cap on, basically doing nothing. Days turned into months and months turned into years. Before I knew it, I was a 27 years old virgin man, struggling with life and unfortunately struggling to make friends or any sort of new friendship. The loneliness just seemed to be my way of life at this point.

​​No partner and definitely not sexually active. Watching all my friends flourishing around me in relationships and marriages, I felt this void would never truly be filled for me. I knew where I stood and I knew what could be achieved but I frustratingly couldn't see the steps to get there!

​​This is the stuff I began to learn with Ryan. Having zero sexual experience at my age, it was refreshing to hear from a trusted source and not the stuff we think is correct, such as pornographic content and unfortunately still, many unhealthy cultural norms. Learning how to effectively communicate better with the opposite sex is such an important and yet underrated skill. As a man, learning not to pretend to be something you are not, trying to portray this façade you think someone will love and accept. Having respect for myself too.

​​The way you treat yourself and carry yourself will set the tone for how people treat you.

​​I began to believe in myself and started to understand the ways of handling my emotions. Also starting to realize I can't control the actions of others and that truly I could only control mine. And that's what I needed to do.

​​I can recall one incident where a female friend of mine saw me walking across the street as she was driving. She pulled over to offer me a lift but I ran away, yes literally ran away! I know that raises so many questions, and frankly speaking, it happened so involuntarily. Yes, there was no threat or danger to my life or well-being in that moment. So what made me do that?!

​​​Eventually I did find myself in a situation where I could progress and make a decent connection with a woman I met on a dating app. That led to me finally 'losing my virginity,' as they say. Interesting experience to say the least. It was surprisingly calmer than I expected it to be, but overall it was a good first time and she also had positive things to say, as if I'm a veteran at this! I'm grateful for the guidance I received beforehand as I have heard some first times don't go so well and lead to instant regret. Thank you for lifting me up from the murky depths of self doubt. I am now a different man!"

​Leo, University Student, 2022

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